As we pulled up to the event, I started to think about all the ladies who have bravely turned up to WOOT without knowing a single person. I thought about my own inhibitions and I realized that it might have taken me a few weeks to gather up the courage to attend a WOOT run if I were new to the island and didn't know any members. I also realize that I might be an exception to the norm and that most women probably have no problems introducing themselves to a group of strangers, but for those of you who are like me, I want to commend you for putting your shyness aside and coming out to join us on a WOOT run. And for those of you who have intentions of joining us but haven't yet felt confident enough to come out, I want to encourage you to send us your thoughts on how we might be able to make the initiation process as comfortable as possible.
Here's what my husband suggested when I asked him for his thoughts about it: he recommended that we have a rotating schedule where our regular WOOT members take turns in wearing some type of accessory or distinctive clothing item which identifies them as the person whom first-time attendees should approach when they arrive at the carpark. Once the new person has introduced herself she can be placed with a group of runners or walkers who best matches her pace ability.
Any other suggestions?
Come on out, we're a friendly group of girls, really..... |
I like Erik's idea. Can I nominate Kathleen until the end of June for this new comer's orientation billet?
ReplyDeleteGreat write up, Jannine. You are correct that it can feel so awkward to come to a group, not knowing anyone and not feeling confident in your running ability. Cheers to all those that have tried and as J says, for those who haven't bring your cup of coffee!!
great post! I feel the same way and was very nervous the first time I went to WOOT especially since I was planning on walking. But, I met a few other walkers and had a blast! I think having a "go to" person each week is a GREAT idea!!!
ReplyDeleteGreat Idea! I know that my anxiety about being new and not knowing anyone kept me away - and that's why I used the Pedi day to meet everyone. We need a buddy system. Carpooling or something too. that would be really helpful - but instead of saying, "show up at USO" be more like, "where do you live? OK - see you bright and early when I come knock on your door and we drive together!"
ReplyDeleteI agree too! I love the idea! I have only been once and I really want to join again, but am a bit shy. Showing up alone was very intimidating, but I had a great time.
ReplyDeleteTo "s" and "The Wheelers," I'm so glad that both of you had the courage to turn up to a WOOT run without knowing anyone, and even happier to hear that you both had a great time. I will see what we can do to put this idea into action.
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